What can spy teach us? One thing seems obvious: observe people carefully. They have to do this for a living (and sometimes to save their own lives); most of us couldn't care less.
Ok, what else? Here a couple of points that Kellaway highlights that might be useful:
Less obvious but no less valuable is her tip for job candidates: get the interviewer to do most of the talking and then hang on their every word. As hardly anyone can resist talking about themselves to a rapt audience, a job offer is almost bound to follow.
To the public speaker and the salesman, Carleson has further good advice: never rely on a script and never learn what you are going to say off by heart. When you do this you use a different tone of voice, go on to autopilot and all trust is lost in an instant. Carleson is right. I have done this, but never again.
But the main lesson is the one mentioned at the outset, namely, watch people carefully to catch their weaknesses:
....and for this there are some common denominators: “ . . . ego, money, ego, ego . . . ego, ego, ego.”
1 comment:
Dear Sir,
Brilliant post ...many thanks; they seldom teach this at IIM:)
Best wishes
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